hatred tu ada selagi ada love. once the love is gone, there's only indifference. dua2 quotes pun betul :)
setuju la, love buat orang berat sebelah dan tak rasional. ingat tak dulu aku penah buat status: love keeps being the reason we make the wrong decision.
we CAN initiate something, but it still depends on the person who cares the least whether they think it's enough to make the relationship work. we can do everything we can, but if the other party is not interested, then it will not work nonetheless.
one-sided love hurts. love only feels good when it's mutual :)
hehe u rite actually :) i felt it many times before. and after that for a long time i choose to ignore my feelings. even now , i knew that i had a liking to someone dear .. but i kept it quiet and endure it.. i had chosen routes before , for now i let destiny drift me between the present ones. and i hope ill be stranded to a desired place , a place that got mutual-sided understanding hehe ^^
kidding. good to know you are still human! i, on the other hand, finds it very hard to get really attracted to someone. they might be cute and kind and sweet -- you know the deal -- but once out of my sight, they're history. sometimes i feel too uncomfortable socializing that i wish i could move to live on the moon!
given, its hard for me also too because appearances deceive , and past experience prove it . though i must admit i really attracted to beautiful things but beauty is in the eyes of beholder is it not? :).
i appreciate certain quality..thus that qualities approve certain someone to be let trough against a wall i had build as defense mechanism for such things.
but the route of life is beautiful literally as how much pain it actually yield. So i appreciate what had happened unto me :) its all a test and as long i had done no sins, i can be content in the future.
Now u dear friend, i cant say much because it is easier for a man to socialize. but to know the beauty of heart, one must understand and see trough in every aspect of one's heart. easiest way, is to quantify their compassion , patience , humility and religious value . to know this u must at least socialize to get to know them , lesser , to observe them is enough. try search the story of julaibib , one of Rasul Allah loved companions. Im not as perfect as him in comparison so im pretty ashamed of myself. but no man is an island :)
i think i'm becoming a recluse. the thought of meeting new people scares me. lots of things seem to scare me actually. now i'm at a point that few people is too crowded for me. i rather be with myself.
i dont know why i find it hard to get attracted to other people. when someone likes me, i push them away. and i push the idea of liking a guy, even before it enters my mind. the excuse i keep repeating is that i'm not ready. but i guess the real thing is that i dont think i deserve a chance.
but considering my tendency to suddenly make new resolves overnight, i'm expecting some changes in few years time. who knows, maybe one morning i'll wake up with determination to become more open and make more friends. for now i dont want to think about it. too stressing.
dude , do take the personality test that i took before. go into my wall , on the left side there s aa bracket about a personality test that had some bar charts. take the test.i wanna see what it say :)
done with the personality test. check it out on my tab. hey, thanks for telling about the test. what can i say. things i found hard to explain about me are displayed on the screen after 10min of answering questions. i'm impressed lol!
wah.. betul2.. huhu~
ReplyDeletepstt.. ko pon da ade blog! :)
hahhahah ade :P
ReplyDeletenak gelak bace yg nie..hehe
ReplyDelete"the opposite of love is not hatred. it's indefference."
ReplyDeletetak tau la sape punye quote ni, dah banyak sangat orang lain re-quote. tapi sangat setuju.
indefference eh..
ReplyDeleteinteresting gak tu. ^^
tp indefference juga membawa keputusan yang rational dan adil.
tp love pun menyebabkan org berat sebelah dan x rational kan :) maybe quote ni ade kebenaran :D
hatred tu ada selagi ada love. once the love is gone, there's only indifference. dua2 quotes pun betul :)
ReplyDeletesetuju la, love buat orang berat sebelah dan tak rasional. ingat tak dulu aku penah buat status: love keeps being the reason we make the wrong decision.
hurm x pasti , rasa nya mcm ada ,got a strong feeling ada :)
ReplyDeletetp indiference tu bile di ponder , adalah satu kenyataan yang sangat sedih kepada yang di indiference kan :(
oh well. sedih memang sedih, but there's another quote that goes something like this:
ReplyDelete"the success of a relationship depends so much on the person who cares the least."
so sedih tak sedih la, kalau orang dah tak cinta, siapalah kita nak paksa-paksa.
hehhe care the least :)
ReplyDeletetp kan kite always boleh initiate the sparks.
like how a guy pikat a girl yang baru dia jumpa and vice versa.
love is always a one sided thing when born kan :D
we CAN initiate something, but it still depends on the person who cares the least whether they think it's enough to make the relationship work. we can do everything we can, but if the other party is not interested, then it will not work nonetheless.
ReplyDeleteone-sided love hurts. love only feels good when it's mutual :)
hehe u rite actually :) i felt it many times before. and after that for a long time i choose to ignore my feelings. even now , i knew that i had a liking to someone dear .. but i kept it quiet and endure it.. i had chosen routes before , for now i let destiny drift me between the present ones. and i hope ill be stranded to a desired place , a place that got mutual-sided understanding hehe ^^
ReplyDeleteso you have a crush huh?
ReplyDeletekidding. good to know you are still human!
i, on the other hand, finds it very hard to get really attracted to someone. they might be cute and kind and sweet -- you know the deal -- but once out of my sight, they're history. sometimes i feel too uncomfortable socializing that i wish i could move to live on the moon!
hehe , u thought im not before eh? :b hahaha
ReplyDeletegiven, its hard for me also too because appearances deceive , and past experience prove it . though i must admit i really attracted to beautiful things but beauty is in the eyes of beholder is it not? :).
i appreciate certain quality..thus that qualities approve certain someone to be let trough against a wall i had build as defense mechanism for such things.
but the route of life is beautiful literally as how much pain it actually yield. So i appreciate what had happened unto me :) its all a test and as long i had done no sins, i can be content in the future.
Now u dear friend,
i cant say much because it is easier for a man to socialize. but to know the beauty of heart, one must understand and see trough in every aspect of one's heart. easiest way, is to quantify their compassion , patience , humility and religious value . to know this u must at least socialize to get to know them , lesser , to observe them is enough. try search the story of julaibib , one of Rasul Allah loved companions. Im not as perfect as him in comparison so im pretty ashamed of myself.
but no man is an island :)
i was just kidding lol. dont take it to heart. :D
ReplyDeletei think i'm becoming a recluse. the thought of meeting new people scares me. lots of things seem to scare me actually. now i'm at a point that few people is too crowded for me. i rather be with myself.
i dont know why i find it hard to get attracted to other people. when someone likes me, i push them away. and i push the idea of liking a guy, even before it enters my mind. the excuse i keep repeating is that i'm not ready. but i guess the real thing is that i dont think i deserve a chance.
but considering my tendency to suddenly make new resolves overnight, i'm expecting some changes in few years time. who knows, maybe one morning i'll wake up with determination to become more open and make more friends. for now i dont want to think about it. too stressing.
goodluck with your crush :)
hhahah tanx for the wishes ^^
ReplyDeletedude , do take the personality test that i took before. go into my wall , on the left side there s aa bracket about a personality test that had some bar charts. take the test.i wanna see what it say :)
i'm not a dude, dude! :p
ReplyDeletedone with the personality test. check it out on my tab. hey, thanks for telling about the test. what can i say. things i found hard to explain about me are displayed on the screen after 10min of answering questions. i'm impressed lol!
hahhaha dude is leisure nick regardless gender for me xD
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