how could u figure out the depth of someone's mind, if u never try to swim and felt the coldness in the pits of their deepest thoughts.
the barren surface of the ocean can never be a base of guess for what millions lively creatures live deep under aint it :)
i let u guys ponder of my thoughts above for a sec ;)
only people like us care to try understand others. the rest simply want to judge.
ReplyDeletei'm so in pessimistic mood right now.
u are judging others now there :)
ReplyDeleteit is not wrong to judge, but dont be so obsessed with it till u dont wanna change u mind after a decree been made.. just like tat~
moderation.
chillex my fren =)
oh yes i'm judging. perhaps the better word is stereotyping.
ReplyDeleteof course it's okay to judge, as long as we keep our mind open. i mean OPEN. and keep the judment to ourselves.
but believe me, other than few people like us, the rest dont care to know what's in our head and heart.
yeah.. not all people are that open. they simply put the question "what" instead of "why" in their heads from my observations~
ReplyDeletethink they should read quran more in surah al-kahfi about prophet moses a.s and his brief mentor (prophet khidir) journeys and always remindful of the story :)
but oh well , they got their own routes and we go our own. :)
Sesungguhnya kamu tidak dapat memberi petunjuk kepada orang yang kamu kasihi, tetapi Allah memberi petunjuk kepada sesiapa yang dikehendaki-Nya. dan Dialah jua yang lebih mengetahui akan orang yang mendapat petunjuk.
(Surah Al Qasas : 56)
Allah knows best afterall :)
totally agree.
ReplyDeleteguess i need some muhasabah to do too.
thanks for reminding :)
actually, people tend to ask 'what' instead of 'why' because its easier. seeing myself how people lie when asking why makes me sick and made me more ignorant of what people do. everybody lies. i guess in this time, ignorant is b8r than curiosity. people tend to lie than open themself to the world. so why bother asking if a lie is what u get? if u really care about their fren, always keep in mind that they have their own reason. unless if we couldnt find anything logical other than hurting themself.. confront them. they're our frens.. and our own brothers.
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ReplyDeletei tend to agree with ur 1st point but no fully.
ReplyDeletethere s a reason of y ppl in psychological field defined human as type introvert or extrovert. those are introvert are reserved ppl and prefer to not let their emotions shown while the other group is simply the opposite to another. being which one differs by their own experience and method of thinking (everyone got their unique perception of things).but , being ignorant is not a good solution after all in my humblest opinion.for a muslim, being wise is to know,its call epistemology.the knowledge should be known but the act is reasoned by justification of God's decree.anihow , i do agree that not all is good to know..imam ghazali said a bad idea can grow into huge sins overtime without that people consciously knowing , that the idea is actually driving him to do the sin in the 1st place..and there s also a hadith that prohibit us to know things that are not in our concern (worldly gossip etc).
i completely agree with ur 2nd point.
ReplyDeleteWe as a muslim should practice give and not take. if u are sincere in what ur doing, u will not think about reward or such. even it is deemed u should get one. what better reward than blessings from God :)...and who is better to be satisfied than to satisfy God =)
and for what we do to satisfied them(people), behind the curtains..we actually doing it for God , and for that, supposedly, worldly reward from His mere creation is also come from Him and so forth what we got, is what He actually give~ alhamdulilah. so why the fuss of need in their response of our deeds to them ( when in reality it is almost meaningless to get their attention(thankfulness, praise) in God's eye).i had made my point =)
for ur kind frends or family or strangers . do good things to them, help them , hear them and be sincere when u decided to do so. and accept them as who they are regardless their response.
know that ur kindness is yours not theirs =)
i hv to clarify myself about being ignorant. i dont mean we hv to shut our ears on everything we heard. 4 example sum1 talks about a guy..let say guy A.. when he heard sumthing bad about him.. be ignorant. theres a reason he did sumthing that people may think about him that way. if we care or curious, ask him directly. actually its ignorant of gossips..
ReplyDeletehehhe. yeah gossips. husnuzon sudeyh :P
ReplyDeleteexcept of he being known or infamous of being doers of something notoriously bad ><
anywway ppl do change~ :)